TMI for Valentines Day

Valentines Day Edition of TMI Tuesday

When I post for TMI it won’t always be on Tuesday however that’s when the questions of the week get posted so I am using the name from now on I will probably refer to it as TMI. I hope you get some idea about who I am from  me doing these posts, I find them fun and hope to continue when I get the chance. If it’s not something you are interested in please feel free to skip it and check out whaht else is on the blog. If you enjoy it consider joining in too, either on your blog or here in the comments.

Questions from TMI Tuesday for Feb 13th 2108

1. Tell us two reasons why you would stay in a bad relationship. 
I would like to think I wouldn’t stay in a bad relationship but if there was an issue that could be resolved then I’d stick around and try to fix it before leaving. I think kids are a reason many people stay in bad relationships which just ends up hurting the kids. The cause of the problem needs addressing to continue the relationship. It’s hard to leave someone you love so I would think lots of us have stayed around longer than we should before leaving but if the issues can’t be resolved then it’s a good idea to evaluate the situation and consider leaving or ending the relationship.

2. Do you wish your private life was kinkier?
Absolutely. I wish sometimes that my partner worried more about my needs sexually instead of only worrying about his although it’s partly my fault for being focusedd on him so much in the beginning. If I was single I’d be looking at attending a munch or other event to meet others and learn more about incorporating kink and BDSM into my life. If my partner was into it too, I’d love to now. He said he would but I can tell he isn’t as keen as I am. I wonder if blog research is a good enough reason to attend some events.

3. Tell us about your weirdest sexual experience.
Um, no.  I have had a few though. I will say that it scared me a little and I was a bit shocked the first time someone wanted to tie me up and suspend me from the roof, I regret passing up the opportunity now and haven’t had the offer again. I know, I’m hanging out in the wrong places. I try to convince my bf to use the ropes more often. I’ve had people think I’m weird for my love of sex toys and freak out when I bought out a vibrator. So, weird is relative.

4. Can you have a totally hands-free orgasm?
Not usually no but I have had a couple. Once I had a stressful exam during it I had an orgasm from the pressure, I think that’s why anyway but it left me stunned. Spanking alone made me reach orgasm once, that was also unexpected.

5. What tips can you give for staying hard (you personally or keeping your partner hard)?
Make sure they are comfortable and use your hands and mouth. Sometimes it’s not going to happen and I suggest not pushing the issue because worrying will make it more difficult to get or keep it up.

Bonus: Is it okay to not celebrate Valentine’s Day even though you have a partner? Why or why not?

It’s fine to do whatever you like but I think it’s nice to show them some affection, not just on Valentines day but it’s a good day to remember to give them some acknowledgement and remind them you are attracted to them and or love them. You don’t have to spend a lot to celebrate Valentines Day. Even picking a flower from the garden is a special act that may make your partner feel special. A massage or special dinner is something else that you don’t need money for and is nice to do on any day of the year.

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