TMI for Valentines Day

TMI Tuesday

Valentines Day Edition of TMI Tuesday

When I post for TMI it won’t always be on Tuesday however that’s when the questions of the week get posted so I am using the name from now on I will probably refer to it as TMI. I hope you get some idea about who I am from  me doing these posts, I find them fun and hope to continue when I get the chance. If it’s not something you are interested in please feel free to skip it and check out whaht else is on the blog. If you enjoy it consider joining in too, either on your blog or here in the comments.

Questions from TMI Tuesday for Feb 13th 2108

1. Tell us two reasons why you would stay in a bad relationship. 
I would like to think I wouldn’t stay in a bad relationship but if there was an issue that could be resolved then I’d stick around and try to fix it before leaving. I think kids are a reason many people stay in bad relationships which just ends up hurting the kids. The cause of the problem needs addressing to continue the relationship. It’s hard to leave someone you love so I would think lots of us have stayed around longer than we should before leaving but if the issues can’t be resolved then it’s a good idea to evaluate the situation and consider leaving or ending the relationship.

2. Do you wish your private life was kinkier?
Absolutely. I wish sometimes that my partner worried more about my needs sexually instead of only worrying about his although it’s partly my fault for being focusedd on him so much in the beginning. If I was single I’d be looking at attending a munch or other event to meet others and learn more about incorporating kink and BDSM into my life. If my partner was into it too, I’d love to now. He said he would but I can tell he isn’t as keen as I am. I wonder if blog research is a good enough reason to attend some events.

3. Tell us about your weirdest sexual experience.
Um, no.  I have had a few though. I will say that it scared me a little and I was a bit shocked the first time someone wanted to tie me up and suspend me from the roof, I regret passing up the opportunity now and haven’t had the offer again. I know, I’m hanging out in the wrong places. I try to convince my bf to use the ropes more often. I’ve had people think I’m weird for my love of sex toys and freak out when I bought out a vibrator. So, weird is relative.

4. Can you have a totally hands-free orgasm?
Not usually no but I have had a couple. Once I had a stressful exam during it I had an orgasm from the pressure, I think that’s why anyway but it left me stunned. Spanking alone made me reach orgasm once, that was also unexpected.

5. What tips can you give for staying hard (you personally or keeping your partner hard)?
Make sure they are comfortable and use your hands and mouth. Sometimes it’s not going to happen and I suggest not pushing the issue because worrying will make it more difficult to get or keep it up.

Bonus: Is it okay to not celebrate Valentine’s Day even though you have a partner? Why or why not?

It’s fine to do whatever you like but I think it’s nice to show them some affection, not just on Valentines day but it’s a good day to remember to give them some acknowledgement and remind them you are attracted to them and or love them. You don’t have to spend a lot to celebrate Valentines Day. Even picking a flower from the garden is a special act that may make your partner feel special. A massage or special dinner is something else that you don’t need money for and is nice to do on any day of the year.

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My 4th TMI (on Sunday)

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Random Q&A all about Me

TMI Tuesday on Sunday

This is my 4th TMI Tuesday post. These questions are from February 6th 2018

It looks like I’ll be posting my answers on the wrong day another week but that means you get a double dose of too much information about me, if I manage to get it done on Tuesday this week.

I wanted to add that you’re more than welcome to answer the questions yourself here in the comments or in your own blog, the questions can be found at the TMI blog through the link at the end, just click the picture.

This week’s answers are short compared with last weeks. I’m considering adding some random ones myself in future or if anyone has any you’d like me to answer please comment and next week I’ll add them. So, here goes another TMI post about me. Have a great day peeps!

Questions & Answers

1. Pancakes or waffles?
I like waffles better but where I live you don’t see them that often so it’s usually pancakes. Probably because they’re easier.

2. Steak or Lobster?
Lobster is a rare luxury in my life, steak is too these days but it’s more likely I could afford a steak than lobster. I can’t even remember what lobster tastes like come to think of it. I remember it was yummy.

3. Freckles or dimples?
As someone with freckles I have to say dimples. As they say the grass is always greener on the other side. I don’t have dimples but I’d love to, I think they’re gorgeous.
*I hope some people answer with freckles.

4. Board games or video games?

Board games. Video games are all good until the controller gets thrown in a frustrated tantrum.

5. Dress up or dress down?
I like to dress up but my usual state is dressed down, comfort is key.

6. Backseat of car or kitchen peat counter? (Of course I’m talking about a spontaneous place to have sex)
Kitchen counter (where I feel most at home,) after the backseat. Lol. No probably the kitchen is comfortable but the car could be exciting so it depends, I think.

7. Nipple clamps or handcuffs? Tell us why you chose your particular sexual encounter enhancement?
Handcuffs are probably my choice, clamps have been something I’ve recently grown to love but my trusty cuffs have always been hanging around on a door handle somewhere waiting to be used.

Bonus: How was your weekend? Would you like to repeat it or never see that weekend again?

The weekend before last was hot and one I’d like to repeat. In saying that the one just gone was chilled out and relaxing so I’ll probably try to repeat that again soon too.

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Rainbow Luck

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Running inside quickly, the rain running from my hair down onto my face then dropping down my nose. I was saturated and so were my clothes. They clung to me and stuck tight to all my curves, slightly translucent now they were soaked.

My whole body was wet and I felt it with every movement. The water slid between my thighs as I walked and under my arms as I moved. It felt kind of sexy, I had an urge to take my clothes of and go back out into the rain naked to let the rain pour down on my freed skin. Goosebumps started to cover me as it got colder, the hairs on my arms stood up with the chill.

I had to get these clothes off. Peeling back my top it was almost like taking the skin off a banana, I had to slowly pull it away from my wet skin it clung tightly to. Underneath I had no bra on just a singlet top that was completely see through now.

I unbuttoned my favorite blue jeans and tried to release my legs from them, forgetting to take off my shoes first. Hopping around I kicked off my runners one foot at a time with my jeans halfway down, almost falling in the process. I finally kicked off the second shoe and used my feet to help free me from my dripping wet jeans. With only my wet underwear and singlet top on I went to get a towel.

Walking through the sparkling clean kitchen I glanced up to see the sun suddenly shining in the window. The rain had stopped, just like that. I went to have a look for a moment grabbing a paper towel to mop up some of the moisture that covered me. Gazing outside I saw the colors appear from nowhere. As if it had been there the whole time, a rainbow appeared in the sky.

Surrounded by grey clouds the sun cut through and presented me with the most miraculous colors from one end of the landscape to the other. I wondered about the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, had anyone ever found it? Maybe the fairies take it with them when the rainbow moves, I thought with a smile. Naughty fairies. Always up to mischief, like cheeky children. I missed being young and free. The moment lasted longer than it felt because I was still standing there as I heard the front door open and my husband come in. His footsteps towards me reminded me that I was half naked and still wet. I almost ran to get some clothes but thought better of it.

I wonder if the rainbow can bring me some luck today, I wondered. “Hey babe, how was work?” He asked as he came into the kitchen. I heard him behind me. “What are you doing, are you OK?” His worried voice coming out now. I turned to him, he looked concerned but he saw the smile in my eyes and came over to me. Putting his arm around my wet top I pointed up to the rainbow. In a moment it was gone again but he got to see it for a few seconds. Then he leaned in to kiss me. The tension between us rose as quickly as the rainbow came and then left.

We were kissing like teenagers, clawing at each others clothes trying to feel the skin underneath and touch every inch of each other. He grabbed me by my shoulders and steered me backwards towards the kitchen bench where he helped me get my butt up onto the table top. There he took hold of my undies, one hand on each side and started to pull them off. I helped a little by lifting my bum eager to see what was next.

Once they were off he went back to kissing me his face had a short layer of prickly stubble and I could smell him, that sexy smell I loved so much of his body mixed with his favorite aftershave. I grabbed his hair and pulled him deeper into the kiss my hands grasping for more of him.

He started to undo his jeans and I felt the warm rush to my groin, readying myself to take all of him. He kissed me while he kicked off his shoes and pants, his underwear were half way down when the hardness pressed into my thigh. I shifted position so it could rub onto me, arousing me into action. “Mmm,” I moaned. I could feel he was ready as I grew moist in anticipation.

He moved his hands down to position himself, getting ready to push inside me. As I felt the pressure of him filling me up his finger started to rub on my clitoris. Slowly he began thrusting in and out rubbing me while we moved together. I let my head go, dropping it behind me and let out a moan. My body moved as he banged himself into me again and again. “I got my luck after all,” I thought to myself.

I felt my nipples, poking against my still damp see through singlet. As he trusted I pinched them, rubbing them before taking off my top. Baring my breasts for him I sat there naked enjoying his body against mine. There on the kitchen bench he fucked me like we were young again. He took his hand away to hold my hips so he could go even harder.

Banging me as he pushed himself in deeper I let out my breath as moans. Sliding my fingers down, I began to rub my clit. Working up the rhythm with him until I couldn’t hold on any longer. I cried out “Oh yes, oh yes, baby yes.” I felt him get bigger inside me.

He sped up and plunged into me harder. I couldn’t hold back, he looked like he could cum so I let myself go. “Mmmm ohh yes, YES!!” I yelled as I really let myself go. I felt him tense and release, then the twitch inside as he filled me up. We hadn’t cum together like that in far too long.

Just because we were getting old didn’t mean we weren’t still sexual beings, human being. He stayed there between my legs for some time and held me, it was all the magic I needed. I silently thanked the fairies and the rainbow for brightening up my world a little.

I kissed my man on the neck, feeling his stubble prickle my lips started to turn me on again. He cupped my breast with one hand and looked like he was contemplating it. Something told me this was going to be the start of a very hot night, just then I heard the pitter patter of rain on the roof again. Yes tonight we can keep each other warm…and young.

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That Spark of Chemistry

Wicked Wednesday

The theme this week is Chemistry

Most of us have felt the kind of attraction that is undeniable. There’s that electricity you feel in the air between you and the person you’re attracted to. You feel a pull of magnetism between the two of you that draws you together. Once you get to the point of being close your bodies come together so naturally. First time sex can feel nervous but mostly it feels so right, like it was meant to be. As if you were made for each other.

Just the smell of the person you’re with is enough to turn you on. Hearing their voice can give you shivers. Butterflies flutter in your stomach in anticipation of seeing them again. You almost feel like a teenager again.

You have to be careful with chemistry, it’s hard to think straight with the hormones going wild. Chemistry can be dangerous especially if you’re in a monogamous relationship, if you don’t want to cheat then keep your distance and your head together. Because when you have it all you can think of is them.

When you’re with them you giggle or play with your hair. Maybe you normally wear tracksuit pants everyday but all of a sudden you want to look good and impress them. Even though they will still want you, in trackies and all if they feel it too. Usually chemistry is felt it is by all of the people involved it’s not just one sided.

It’s palpable, like it’s in the air. Your attraction is often obvious to everyone else and them. When the chemistry takes over your body language gives you away. That’s chemistry.

If you’re lucky enough to have real chemistry with your partner, the sex is amazing. Chemistry can alter your perception and change your views.

One thing I learn is differences, things like social status or age difference no longer matter (so long as you are both mature, grown adults.)

Looks aren’t important anymore or as important. What you find attractive might not be what draws you to someone you share chemistry with, yet you find them good looking no matter what, gorgeous even and sexy for sure. They may not be your type if you even have one but you want them anyway.

I feel lucky to share chemistry with my boyfriend and he is attractive. He’s also quite a lot older than me and I don’t mind at all. We have an amazing sex life, he is attractive. Submission wasn’t my usual style but since I’ve known him I wanted to submit. For him to dominate me. He is good at it and getting better.

The chemistry was noticeable the first night we met. I thought about him afterwards, I even asked mutual friends about him and where he was. The next year after we made contact again, I was so excited.

Often we would sit in his car to talk and the windows would steam up, literally, with us just talking. We both noticed it and laughed probably both thinking the same thing, how much we’d like to be together.

The hormones and chemicals were running wild in my brain and it turns out in his too, between us they were having a party.

The first time we had sex the actual sex wasn’t that good but it felt amazing to me. Anticipation and chemical attraction combined made me feel relieved to finally get close to him. The second time, we found our rhythm and it was amazingly good. For someone who never orgasms when I first met him I had orgasms a lot. Good ones too.

All this time later and even when I don’t have an orgasm I enjoy sex with him. I also care about him and love him so it’s quite lucky I found him and that the reaction in my brain allowed me to overlook our age gap. I didn’t even notice it, I felt like we were equals and apart from him being boss we pretty much are. It’s our anniversary soon, and already we have discussed marriage.

Chemistry can be dangerous in that it can strike at any time with anyone you meet. If you have chemistry with someone that’s returned and you are both free, enjoy it and just go for it. It’s satisfying being with someone where there is chemistry.

When it feels right though it’s a magical feeling. Almost like your souls recognize each other, like finding the one you belong with. When you have a strong connection with them it can feel meant to be.

You just click together. Once you get together your bodies work in sync with each other, they tune in to one another wants and needs. Sex can be euphoric.

Satisfaction can come just from being together and then you might feel even more of a sense of fulfillment. Finding that spark is something special and it’s so good to experience it.

If you haven’t got that person in your life I hope for you that you find someone you share an attraction with so strong it can only be put down to chemistry.

It’s an amazing feeling. Being apart is the hardest thing and it’s scary to think it may not last forever so enjoy it while it does and savour the moment. Revel in each other and bask in the chemical reaction that will release serotonin and other happy making goodness in your brain. That’s what it boils down to, that earth shattering feeling. Enjoy every moment of it.

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TMI Tuesday #2

TMI Tuesday

This is my 2ND TMI Tuesday that I’ve done. I like posting about some non sex related stuff now and then. Joining in TMI over a period of time might give more insight into me as a person. Plus it’s just fun and helps give me a reason to post. I considered writing some of my own questions but today I’ll stick with the ones from the TMI site.

Questions From Jan 23rd 2018

1. Favorite childhood memory?

My favorite young childhood memory is probably of Christmas days when the family all got together for a feast and the kids got to open our presents.

I have some pretty good memories from my high school years of playing up with my mates drinking and doing all the naughty stuff we weren’t meant to be doing. Some of those memories are a bit blurry but I remember one night being thrown into a backyard swimming pool with my clothes on, it was hilarious, more to the others than me at the time. Later that night we saw a shooting star and two of my friends went to kiss and my girlfriend was so drunk she threw up in our other male friends face. I felt so bad for him but he took it really well. We had obviously drank way too much that particular night. Lying in the park that night was an awesome experience I’ve never forgotten.

2. Favorite moment in the last 3 months?

In the last 3 months I’ve had some nice moments. My favorite I won’t share here, I’ll just say it’s about being with family.

I will share that I have been staying with my boyfriend for the last few months, I’ve pretty much moved in and I’m loving it. Luckily he is managing to cope with my messy side. He got me a desk and put it together yesterday for me to work on the blog which is awesome. He’s so supportive and gorgeous. He’s sexy too and it’s great exploring different things with him. Let’s just say, I don’t think our life will get boring in the bedroom any time soon.

Because I’m in love there has been many favorite moments with him. Him buying me the desk was unexpected so I felt pretty special.

3. Favorite drink on a hot summer day?

It’s Summer here at the moment and I am loving iced tea when I’m not drinking vodka and soft drink. It’s best when it is really ice cold. For a treat it’s nice to have in a jug with fresh fruit and mint leaves for garnishing. Yum! I won’t forget to mention coffee, even in Summer I have a coffee in the morning, even if it’s an iced coffee.

4. Perfect day out: what, where, with whom?

I’d love to spend the day in the country or where there’s lots of trees and nature, with my boyfriend and stay at a bed and breakfast or camp out somewhere under the stars. We’ve been talking about going camping so it’s been on my mind. Going somewhere beautiful to just relax would be great.

I’m pretty smitten at the moment so he may appear in many of my answers right now. Maybe I should use my imagination a little more…

5. Your most unexpected achievement?

My most unexpected achievement is probably starting a sex blog. The blog I have now is a little different to what I pictured even when I started so it’s even been unexpected since I planned it. Things never go to plan in life though, it’s all an experience and I’m trying to enjoy the ride. I’m in the process of reevaluating what I’m doing here and will probably do a major overhaul soon. In the meantime I am just trying to keep going and continue to find fun and joy in my writing and blogging.

Bonus: The kindest thing you ever did for a stranger?

I’m not sure what the nicest thing is but I try to do nice things when I can. I will give someone change in the street if they’re asking and I have it.

I once let someone who I didn’t really know live with me before. I have to say that was a big mistake.

I’ve done Random acts of kindness and sent online friends presents before. I would love to run a giveaway on this site and am trying to get something organized. If I can’t find a sponsor I’ll put something together.

I’ll sometimes talk to random people I meet and have heard some stories, both good and bad, some really sad. Listening to someone can be a great gift to them. Everyone has hard times and we all need to talk at sometime. I think listening to someone’s story or what’s going on for them is an act of kindness, one I and many people often do. It would be good to find out how some of those strangers lives turned out.

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My 1st TMI Tuesday

1. How old is your longest living relative? 93

2. Do you hope to live to this age? Why? At one point in time I would have said no way but as I get older I realize how precious life is and I’d like to live as long as I can to experience as much as I can especially considering how much time I wasted in my misspent youth. I hope that I still have an active sex life in my older years and that I’m able to have a good time doing other activities that i enjoy, even if that means knitting or whatever I’m into by then.

3. What is your family’s native language? Your native language? English, Australian English which is really UK English with a bit of Aussie slang thrown in.

4. How old were you when you started dating? 13, and I can’t believe my mother let me go out with a 21 year old, luckily we didn’t have sex, not that he didn’t try to. Now I’m grown I see how inappropriate that age difference was especially at my young age.

5. How old were you when you first had sex–any kind of sex? I would have been 12 when I started playing around sexually and 14 when I had actual sex. My mother was the first person I told, we had a strange relationship but I feel sorry for her now having to hear that about her daughter. I lost my virginity to a boy the same age as me who I’d grown up with. I no longer see him but for quite some time I di. I had a real crush on him for a long time and always regretted the fact that nothing more ever came from it.

Bonus: How would you describe your sense of humor?

I have a dark sense of humor sometimes I can be sarcastic and people don’t know if I’m joking or not unless they’ve really gotten to know me and how I am. I like to think that I’m funny although I’m sure many would disagree, at least I can make myself laugh.

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