Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Couples Kit Review

My Review of the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Couples Kit

Including Reviews of the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand, the Hummer & G-spot Pleaser Attachments and a Lockable Storage Case

Lovehoney Deluxe Wand in my hand

Lovehoney Deluxe Wand

This review is quite long as it’s for the Deluxe Wand Couples Kit which has four products in it designed for couples play. Great for using together or alone. The kit includes the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand, two wand attachments, The “Hummer Male Masturbator Wand Attachment,” masturbation sleeve and a “Lovehoney G-spot Pleaser,” gspot simulator. The fourth item is a Lovehoney storage case for the items. The Lovehoney Deluxe Wand is a newer take on their powered wand which is similar to the Hitachi Magic Wand but available in cords to suit other countries where the magic wand isn’t available.

The Lovehoney Deluxe Wand

Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Couples Kit, wand, hummer, pleaser and case
Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Couples Kit

The Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Massage Wand Vibrator is a mains powered massager designed in the likeness of the Hitachi magic wand but with the bonus of having power cables suited to different regions depending on where you order from. You can buy the wand separately or in a kit with add on attachments and it comes in black and white. At around $150 on it’s own or $200 in the kit it’s well priced for a toy that will give you lots of use and hopefully last a long time.

The deluxe model is a newer model than the previous Lovehoney Wand which is bigger and has buttons instead of a dial. It is really large in size and gets quite heavy after awhile of holding it, although I imagine many people wouldn’t need to hold it for that long. The cord is 2.4meters allowing you a bit of room to move. You won’t ever need to buy batteries or charge it because it plugs straight in, depending on where you live you can order a power cord to suit your region. In places like Australia the original Magic Wand isn’t available so the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand is perfect for anyone wanting to try out the powerful ongoing vibrations of a wand.

The head is has a soft but firm Silicone coating and the handle ABS plastic, it’s also free of Phthalates and Latex free. I noticed after a long time of using it the silicone starts to soften and come away from the internal part of the head. That could be part of the reason it turns off automatically after about half an hour. The function of automatically switching off is also good for if you fall asleep during use, that’s if you can with the noise.

The vibrations can be quite intense and cover a large surface area which may not be what some people are used to if they like more direct clitoral stimulation, there is attachments that can help with that and provide internal or more focused vibrations. There’s 20 settings including 10 levels of vibration and 10 modes of various patterns and pulsations. The settings seem to me to change the actual feeling of the vibration, they feel more rumbly at the lower level and more buzzy as the level goes up.

The different levels and modes mix it up a bit. I’m not usually a fan of patterned modes but with the wand not only does it widely vary the type and intensity of vibration, it can also allow you to leave it in place without feeling too much. So, rather than lifting the pressure some of the patterns stop or slow it for you. Some modes make it feel much more powerful in the bursts of vibration too, you can hear the power as it stops and starts, some have short bursts of vibration and pauses in different rhythms, there’s heaps of settings to choose from and it was fun trying them all.

There’s 3 buttons one to turn it on and increase the vibration level, one to change the mode and one to reduce the level again and turn it off after it reaches the first setting. They can be difficult to find when in use so I got used to lining my three fingers up, spread apart a little bit until they aligned with the buttons otherwise I’d end up changing the pattern when I only wanted to increase or decrease the level.

The noise can be be a bit distracting. It is really loud compared to toys I’m used to and at times I found myself wondering if people outside could hear it. There is no doubt it is quite powerful, you can hear the power. The handle can vibrate noisily at times and I found I had to hold it a certain way to stop this.

It also gives a good massage, which was what the original wand was sold to do. You can use it on other area of the body such as shoulder blades and the lower back or even legs and arms, anywhere that feels good. It really is multi purpose and can be used by anyone of any gender, especially with the attachments which give it different uses altogether.

Initially I found it difficult to get used to, being more accustomed to using vibrators that provide targeted stimulation. After some experimenting with positioning and getting into the right frame of mind I was able to achieve orgasm. I found it took some time though, I don’t think everyone takes so long to climax with such a powerful vibrator, from what I’ve heard some people find it to be powerful enough they prefer to use it through clothing or a layer of fabric. I tried using it in this way and found that it worked through my normal clothes, sitting up was a good position to try it in allowing for it to be used in different angles.

The head being so wide means your partner can use it on you without having to search around for the right spot. Using it as a couple can bring another dimension to playing with your vibrator. It’s worth mentioning that it’s not really good for use during sex in a missionary position and it may take some adjusting to find a position that it can be used comfortably. Again the attachment may make it easier to do.

It’s advisable to use lots of water based lubricant when using the wand, with or without attachments, to help it feel more enjoyable and to avoid irritation. Afterwards be sure to clean it as soon as possible with warm soapy water or toy cleaner and allow to dry before storing, in the case if you buy the set. If you leave it you may find it harder to properly clean because of the crevices in the neck and joins in the handle.

Teaser gspot attachment on wand with hummer next to it
Teaser on Wand and Hummer

The G-spot Pleaser

One of the attachments is the Lovehoney G-spot Pleaser it comes in the couples kit or separately. You can buy the attachments separately, both cost around $30each when not on sale. The G-spot Pleaser is made of silicone and the length of the insertable part is about 10 cm long. You pop the cup like part of it over the tip of the wand until it fits nice and snugly, on tight. Then you can use it as a normal vibrator only with the added size of the wand you need to take into account. The way they recommend doing it is to line the wand up with your body and use lubricant to slide it inside turning the handle onto more of an angle. If you follow what feels right you should be fine, to get more pressure on the G-spot you will probably want the wand on more of an angle.

While the G-spot attachment is labeled for internal use and g-spot stimulation I found it great for more direct clitoral stimulation. The head alone for me covers too much of a wide area, the G-spot Pleaser allows me to get the powerful vibrations of the wand where I want it both externally and internally. It is curved for stimulating the g-spot which some people will really appreciate. I find using it on the clit first makes it more enjoyable to use on the G-spot. It was fun moving it around and finding the spots that felt best and figuring out the right way to use it on my body.

As with all toys if you buy this one I suggest spending some time to get acquainted with it, try different positions, pressure and angles, test out the settings and give it a try before writing it off

Hummer Masturbation Wand Attachment

Wand attachments for couples kit
Wand Attachments

The Hummer Male Masturbation Sleeve can be purchased separately. It’s an masturbation sleeve attachment for penises made from the jelly like material TPE. It is important to keep it clean and dry before use for a longer life and to get the most out of it. There is a textured inner with ribbed lines on one end which is tighter and raised dots on the other end to give a different feeling when used each way. As with the G-spot attachments and any other wand add ons you put the open “cup” over the head of the wand and turn on to use. For the masturbation sleeve it’s best to have it in place before turning the wand on, in other words put the sleeve over the penis first. Use lots of lube and slide it over a hard penis for use, it stretches to help get it on.

My boyfriend had never used a sex toy like this one before, or any that were made to stimulate on the penis. He seemed to be a little freaked out at first but after relaxing a bit and feeling the sensations he was able to enjoy it more, especially after the first time using it. He tried both ways and agreed the lined, tighter end felt best when put on first. He tried it a few ways, with my help. First we tried using it as a masturbation sleeve and moving it up and down, with and without a hand around it. Another way he tried it was to leave it in place just over the start of the head with the majority of the sleeve covering the shaft, holding the wand with the vibration turned on. He tried experimenting with different modes.

The Hummer got the desired effect with him ejaculating after a short time, after the initial first use, so I can tell you that it works. You can see the sleeve moving when the wand is turned on, it vibrates and also moves side to side slightly so I imagine it would feel quite good even if it is a bit unusual for the first time user. I think it’s good to be able to have a toy you can share and that instead of only me having a toy my partner also has one now that he can use or we can use together, not at the same time though that would require some type of acrobatics.

The storage case

Black Case with Lovehoney Deluxe Wand inside
Wand in Case

I ended up with the Lovehoney Magic Wand Storage Case but I think the kit normally comes with a sturdy, hard case. The cases can be locked for safer more private storage, which I thought was a bonus. Both the soft and hard cases are good for storage. They’re long enough to fit the wand and have some pockets for keeping the attachments in. Allowing you to store them safely, cleanly and away from prying eyes. Like the other add ons, you can buy the storage case separately.

Together the Deluxe Wand Couples Kit kit makes a great couples toy pack and will provide hours of pleasure and fun for everyone. I would recommend buying the wand in the kit to allow for the extra uses the attachments help with, especially since I find direct clitoral stimulation preferable. Anyone who enjoys vibrators would find trying a wand worthwhile I think, they aren’t for everyone but the add ons can help them suit various needs. There is different attachments available to try as well as the two in the couples kit. By including a masturbation sleeve it allows the wand to be used by almost anyone.

I have heard wands are a good option for people with certain disabilities, for example injuries that affect sensation. For those with disabilities affecting their ability to reach the lower body easily it could also be an option due to the long handle. I have to say that I’m not a Doctor nor an expert in that field, so I’d advise doing a bit of research and speaking to a sex positive medical practitioner for advice and to see if it might be the right choice for you.

Overall I think wands are good for a wide range of people. Personally I like more direct clit stimulation so the attachments are great and I look forward to trying some others in future. If you decide to give it a try please buy through my link and use the code RISQUE10 for a 10% discount at

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Sh! Bliss G Vibe Review

Sh! Bliss G Vibe Review

Getting my Bliss G Vibe

I was lucky enough to win a competition to celebrate a blogiversary from Isabelle Lauren’s blog late last year. I decided at the time I would review it, I’m glad I did. I’m a bit late writing the review but I finally got around to writing it here.

I really like the Bliss G-Vibe, it was pleasantly surprising. After looking into them more I would love to try other Sh! products. It would be great if I could have more to do with the company in general but being overseas is one obstacle. I’d love to review for them they’re a fantastic company.

About Sh!

Sh! is an award winning sex shop based in London with their shop the sh! Erotic Emporium. An online store is available at Sh! They Provide discreet and swift shipping to clients in the UK and internationally makes them accessible to anyone.

They describe themselves as a female focused pleasure store but they are more than that. Sex positive resources including online information and educational classes they run onsite. I wish I was closer to attend a class there is some really good ones covering a range of topics like bondage, seduction and orgasms.

I’ve found them to be a great, sex positive, women friendly store. They stock a great range of body safe quality toys for everyone. On top of that they’re very supportive of sex toy reviewers the community in general.

Their own range of Sh! products is available online and in-store as well as a variety of other trusted brands. Now let’s get to the review part.

Bliss G Vibe G Spot Vibrator
Bliss G Vibe

The Sh! Bliss G-vibe

This Bliss G-vibe is the first Sh! product I have used and it’s the first toy I’ve tried that is specifically aimed at internal g-spot stimulation. I’m glad I’ve now tried it because I am converted. With the Bliss G-Vibe I experienced some intense orgasms and thoroughly enjoyed using it even when I didn’t climax.

About the Sh! Bliss G-Vibe

The Sh! Bliss G-vibe is a small blue almost purple battery operated gspot type vibrator with a curved and rounded tip designed to stimulate the gspot.

It’s made from silicone and contains no pthalates, which is a good thing. For those with sensitivities, it’s also latex free.

The surface feels really smooth and the material is noticeably soft to touch. I thought it was more smooth than some silicone toys I have, it’s able to move around easily even with little to no lubricant it glides over skin easily. Firm enough to produce the desired pressure on the gspot, as the name suggests just where the Bliss G-Vibe is designed to aim for. The firmness isn’t hard so it’s not stiff there is some flexibility to help it fit comfortably and to your body shape. Some other vibes are too hard for my liking so to me the feeling of it is perfect.

Bliss G Vibe Size
Bliss G Vibe

Size wise it was pretty near perfect for me, the stem or shaft part for internal use is narrow and the tip is bulbous with a smooth rounded top. It’s a comfortable size that’s perfect for the purpose, gspot stimulation. It does its job quite well the tip is bent enough to get to the right spot and not too bent so it isn’t uncomfortable if you move it around or have it facing back or sideways.

Batteries are included with the Sh! Bliss G-Vibe, despite the box saying it didn’t. It only takes one AA battery. The battery lasts quite some time. Possibly because the vibration level isn’t really strong. Being more mild is better for internal stimulation, for me it is at least. The softer vibration also seemed to make it quieter to use so you can use it discreetly.

There is 10 settings the first 3 are levels of vibration strength the other 7 are patterned vibrations. I found the highest level best for external and liked some of the patterns for internal. It depends on you and personal choice which setting will work best. To change settings you press the button on the base and it goes up. To turn it off you have to go through all the settings before it stops that was one thing I found annoying about the G-Vibe.

It can still be used for clitoral stimulation even if that’s not the purpose of the G-Vibe. Being rounded and smooth on the tip makes it nice to use on the clit area and externally. The smoothness feels good and you can easily move it around or fit it over your clitoris. It’s good to use your vibe on different areas and move it around.

Usually I prefer clitoral stimulation and toys focusing on external vibration but I really like this toy, it’s nice to use and something different for me. Lately it’s become one of my go-to toys.

When it’s used together with clitoral simulator type toys, it can be pretty mind blowing. The first time I did and had an orgasm I was impressed, because I’d focused on both the gspot and clitoris the type of orgasm is different and much stronger. Arousing me so much I almost reached the point of ejaculation which isn’t something I generally experience.

Even without other toys, the Bliss G-Vibe alone impressed me and has converted me to gspot type vibrators. Using a mixture of movement, the sensation of the rounded end and bent tip mixed with vibration its enough to evoke arousal for most people. It’s the perfect tool to aid masturbation and take it to another level.

The button is on the base of it which I was worried would get in the way and I’d press it accidentally but I didn’t have any issues with that.
The mild vibration still provides enough feeling that you can use it externally. The rounded tip fits well on the clit and you can move it around or roll it for extra stimulation.

When inserting the Bliss G-Vibe it should have the bend faced forward, towards the front wall where the gspot is located. Move it around and allow for the pressure to get the right area you will most likely know when you’ve found. You can leave it to vibrate or move it to massage the gspot as well for a more intense feeling.

Use toy cleaner or warm soapy water to clean. Remember to be careful when washing around the battery area, although it is waterproof if the cap is on tightly. Store cleanly in a cool place as the package instructs and your Bliss Gvibe should give you a lot of pleasure. Water based lubricants are recommended, not oil or silicone based lubes.

As I have mentioned in other posts I find it hard to orgasm and usually enjoy focusing on a good amount of clitoral stimulation and some internal. The Bliss G-vibe aroused my gspot intensely and gave me intense orgasms especially when combined with external masturbation. Orgasms for me are hard to achieve but when I used the Bliss G-Vibe together with clitoral focused toys I had very strong orgasms. I think due to the pressure on my g-spot I found I produced more natural lubricant, I think I came close to ejaculation. I’m not used to gspot orgasms but I know they can have that effect. Continuing to explore internal and gspot orgasms will bring some fun times ahead.

Bliss G Vibe in Packaging
Bliss G Vibe in Packaging

Bliss Gvibe Information

Power supply: Batteries one AA

Waterproof: Yes with lid tightly screwed on

Noise level: Quiet

Vibration level: Mild

Settings: 10 with 3 speeds and 7 patterns

Materials: Silicone

Pthalates: No

Latex: No

Pros

  • Smooth feel
  • Soft
  • Mild vibration
  • Targeted end for effective gspot stimulation
  • Lightweight
  • Made by a great company
  • Phthylate free
  • Silicone
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • Button on end needs to be pushed several times to turn off, you need to go through the cycle for it to stop.
  • Nothing else really unless you count needing batteries as a con