My 4th TMI (on Sunday)

TMI Tuesday

Random Q&A all about Me

TMI Tuesday on Sunday

This is my 4th TMI Tuesday post. These questions are from February 6th 2018

It looks like I’ll be posting my answers on the wrong day another week but that means you get a double dose of too much information about me, if I manage to get it done on Tuesday this week.

I wanted to add that you’re more than welcome to answer the questions yourself here in the comments or in your own blog, the questions can be found at the TMI blog through the link at the end, just click the picture.

This week’s answers are short compared with last weeks. I’m considering adding some random ones myself in future or if anyone has any you’d like me to answer please comment and next week I’ll add them. So, here goes another TMI post about me. Have a great day peeps!

Questions & Answers

1. Pancakes or waffles?
I like waffles better but where I live you don’t see them that often so it’s usually pancakes. Probably because they’re easier.

2. Steak or Lobster?
Lobster is a rare luxury in my life, steak is too these days but it’s more likely I could afford a steak than lobster. I can’t even remember what lobster tastes like come to think of it. I remember it was yummy.

3. Freckles or dimples?
As someone with freckles I have to say dimples. As they say the grass is always greener on the other side. I don’t have dimples but I’d love to, I think they’re gorgeous.
*I hope some people answer with freckles.

4. Board games or video games?

Board games. Video games are all good until the controller gets thrown in a frustrated tantrum.

5. Dress up or dress down?
I like to dress up but my usual state is dressed down, comfort is key.

6. Backseat of car or kitchen peat counter? (Of course I’m talking about a spontaneous place to have sex)
Kitchen counter (where I feel most at home,) after the backseat. Lol. No probably the kitchen is comfortable but the car could be exciting so it depends, I think.

7. Nipple clamps or handcuffs? Tell us why you chose your particular sexual encounter enhancement?
Handcuffs are probably my choice, clamps have been something I’ve recently grown to love but my trusty cuffs have always been hanging around on a door handle somewhere waiting to be used.

Bonus: How was your weekend? Would you like to repeat it or never see that weekend again?

The weekend before last was hot and one I’d like to repeat. In saying that the one just gone was chilled out and relaxing so I’ll probably try to repeat that again soon too.

TMI Tuesday blog

Blog Updates

Themed Days 

I had been thinking about starting to do some themes on different days, like Share our Shit Saturday #SoSS, when I came across a whole lot of other sex blogging memes that provide prompts and give you a place to share your work. I find this really exciting and look forward to sharing more posts with other memes such as Masturbation Monday, Sinful Sunday, Wicked Wednesday, Kink of the Week and a whole lot more.

I am still considering making my own themes for specific days of the week but I might find that a little too restrictive. You will be informed when I do decide what my plan looks like. 

Posting Plan

My current goal is to post twice a week, at least once but I’m hopeful that I can manage 3 or more depending on how involved they are and what else I have on. 

If I can I will post everyday or several in a day depending on when I can.

Moving to self hosted site

Over the next month I am going to try and focus one writng after some big changes on the site that may not yet be visible. I still have a lot of work to do to get it up to scratch but a big part of that is posting. Over the last month I moved to a self hosted site to give me more freedom and opportunities for growth. 

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Possible Promotion, Giveaway

If I can find a sponsor is that I hope to run a giveaway in the new year mark the sites big move and to celebrate the first three months of the blog as well as the new year as a way of thinking you, the readers and followers of the blog. If I can’t find a sponsor I will look into that the avenues and next year I will arrange something so keep your eyes peeled. 

Future Posts 

I’ll be experimenting a bit with my posting as I have been doing. I am looking forward to writing about some topics which are close to my heart. Some ideas I have on the go are posts about self care, body image and other self improvement type themes. Useful info on goal setting and other helpful tools and info. Sexual health, consent and orgasms. I hope to write a post about sex drive to link in with another blog site. And I’m working on a post about sexuality which I have started to focus on sex workers as the theme. Those are just some of the possible things you may see posted here in the near future. Again I’d love some suggestions. Feel free to comment on what your preferences are.  


I have some reviews coming up. I am looking for more products to review but having some difficulty in finding them. I will keep you posted but in the mean time I will be reviewing After Dark Intimate Wipes. 

I also have some other toys which I bought and figured I would review. I have an iWand, a calExotics Entice Rabbit vibrator, an alien vibrator and a Touché vibrating Ice Massager. That should keep me busy with reviews for awhile. Hopefully then I will be able to get my hands on some of the newer toys you are probably interested in finding out about. It’s good to know about budget toys for people with a low budget like myself.  

Helping support the blog and myself to keep writing. 

I recently added donation options allowing you to donate via PayPal payment option in the menu and in some posts and pages. 

Alternatively you can buy me a coffee through the coffee badge which I will figure out how to pin to the homepage soon.

I’m also in the process of creating a Patreon site to help fund the site also which in the long term could be a blessing. Patreon patrons will get bonuses such as behind the scenes updates and other treats from me depending on their level of support. I will announce it here when the site is up and running. 

**Note: Since they have announced the changes I’m not so sure I am going to stick with it but we will see and I’ll keep you posted.
So I think that’s about it for the updates. I have been busy trying to learn all about computers and setting up websites with not much help from my host provider but slowly I’m getting there. I have a few more hurdles in that department and we should be all systems go. Thanks for joining me once again. I look forward to seeing you soon. 

RisqueViews updates. 

Hi there I just thought I’d pop in to let you all know the two latest reviews are up as well as a two part article on sex toy care. I haven’t received any new products for review aside from some lubricant but as I just posted the astroglide review I am going to try and hold off on posting these for awhile.

In the mean time, I might post some articles focusing on sexual health and I might write a piece from a first hand point of view about sexuality and different life stages, like how to keep your love life alive into your 30’s, 40’s and beyond. Or maintaining your sex life after a major life change or health scare. Something along those lines will be what I work on next. Or even, keeping the spark alive after you’ve put on or lost weight. I know this can be hard for many people, as a woman it’s something I have struggled with this year but I am getting there. Those are just some ideas I had now so we will see where they lead us.

I also wanted to thank-you all for your patience while I fine tune posts and get used to publishing on here. I have edited a number of things and may continue to do so until I get things looking good. Hopefully that will be soon, so thanks again.

I would really love some feedback if anyone has any preference or questions they’d like answered. I would love to do a regular post where I answer readers questions, like in the magazines, only cooler.

Please comment with your ideas and questions and follow for more posts coming your way soon.

New Reviews Coming Soon

I am so excited to say that I should be writing some new reviews for the next generation Satisfyer products. I am really keen to try out the new products and let you all know how they work for me. I also have a few other reviews coming soon, as I mentioned in my last post but I am particularly excited about the Satisfyer reviews and can’t wait to get started on testing the product then writing my review which I plan on promoting throughout the various social media profiles I have set up. The more of you that want to read my reviews means I’ll be asked to do more reviews. Which is really exciting for me. I am not making any money for this blog, so far it’s purely for the love. I would like to find a way to branch out and discuss other issues on here that are meaningful to me. So far I have a few ideas of how to link in health promotion and education with what I’ve been doing so far but there are so many other things I want to discuss I might make these little random posts more regular and talk about whatever is going on in my head in between reviews and real risque view posts. 

So for now I’m off to work on my diva cup review and a review for astro glide an Australian made lubricant. They should be up in the next week, hopefully just before I start work on the new Satisfyer review.