My Review of the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Couples Kit
Including Reviews of the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand, the Hummer & G-spot Pleaser Attachments and a Lockable Storage Case
Lovehoney Deluxe Wand
This review is quite long as it’s for the Deluxe Wand Couples Kit which has four products in it designed for couples play. Great for using together or alone. The kit includes the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand, two wand attachments, The “Hummer Male Masturbator Wand Attachment,” masturbation sleeve and a “Lovehoney G-spot Pleaser,” gspot simulator. The fourth item is a Lovehoney storage case for the items. The Lovehoney Deluxe Wand is a newer take on their powered wand which is similar to the Hitachi Magic Wand but available in cords to suit other countries where the magic wand isn’t available.
The Lovehoney Deluxe Wand
The Lovehoney Deluxe Wand Massage Wand Vibrator is a mains powered massager designed in the likeness of the Hitachi magic wand but with the bonus of having power cables suited to different regions depending on where you order from. You can buy the wand separately or in a kit with add on attachments and it comes in black and white. At around $150 on it’s own or $200 in the kit it’s well priced for a toy that will give you lots of use and hopefully last a long time.
The deluxe model is a newer model than the previous Lovehoney Wand which is bigger and has buttons instead of a dial. It is really large in size and gets quite heavy after awhile of holding it, although I imagine many people wouldn’t need to hold it for that long. The cord is 2.4meters allowing you a bit of room to move. You won’t ever need to buy batteries or charge it because it plugs straight in, depending on where you live you can order a power cord to suit your region. In places like Australia the original Magic Wand isn’t available so the Lovehoney Deluxe Wand is perfect for anyone wanting to try out the powerful ongoing vibrations of a wand.
The head is has a soft but firm Silicone coating and the handle ABS plastic, it’s also free of Phthalates and Latex free. I noticed after a long time of using it the silicone starts to soften and come away from the internal part of the head. That could be part of the reason it turns off automatically after about half an hour. The function of automatically switching off is also good for if you fall asleep during use, that’s if you can with the noise.
The vibrations can be quite intense and cover a large surface area which may not be what some people are used to if they like more direct clitoral stimulation, there is attachments that can help with that and provide internal or more focused vibrations. There’s 20 settings including 10 levels of vibration and 10 modes of various patterns and pulsations. The settings seem to me to change the actual feeling of the vibration, they feel more rumbly at the lower level and more buzzy as the level goes up.
The different levels and modes mix it up a bit. I’m not usually a fan of patterned modes but with the wand not only does it widely vary the type and intensity of vibration, it can also allow you to leave it in place without feeling too much. So, rather than lifting the pressure some of the patterns stop or slow it for you. Some modes make it feel much more powerful in the bursts of vibration too, you can hear the power as it stops and starts, some have short bursts of vibration and pauses in different rhythms, there’s heaps of settings to choose from and it was fun trying them all.
There’s 3 buttons one to turn it on and increase the vibration level, one to change the mode and one to reduce the level again and turn it off after it reaches the first setting. They can be difficult to find when in use so I got used to lining my three fingers up, spread apart a little bit until they aligned with the buttons otherwise I’d end up changing the pattern when I only wanted to increase or decrease the level.
The noise can be be a bit distracting. It is really loud compared to toys I’m used to and at times I found myself wondering if people outside could hear it. There is no doubt it is quite powerful, you can hear the power. The handle can vibrate noisily at times and I found I had to hold it a certain way to stop this.
It also gives a good massage, which was what the original wand was sold to do. You can use it on other area of the body such as shoulder blades and the lower back or even legs and arms, anywhere that feels good. It really is multi purpose and can be used by anyone of any gender, especially with the attachments which give it different uses altogether.
Initially I found it difficult to get used to, being more accustomed to using vibrators that provide targeted stimulation. After some experimenting with positioning and getting into the right frame of mind I was able to achieve orgasm. I found it took some time though, I don’t think everyone takes so long to climax with such a powerful vibrator, from what I’ve heard some people find it to be powerful enough they prefer to use it through clothing or a layer of fabric. I tried using it in this way and found that it worked through my normal clothes, sitting up was a good position to try it in allowing for it to be used in different angles.
The head being so wide means your partner can use it on you without having to search around for the right spot. Using it as a couple can bring another dimension to playing with your vibrator. It’s worth mentioning that it’s not really good for use during sex in a missionary position and it may take some adjusting to find a position that it can be used comfortably. Again the attachment may make it easier to do.
It’s advisable to use lots of water based lubricant when using the wand, with or without attachments, to help it feel more enjoyable and to avoid irritation. Afterwards be sure to clean it as soon as possible with warm soapy water or toy cleaner and allow to dry before storing, in the case if you buy the set. If you leave it you may find it harder to properly clean because of the crevices in the neck and joins in the handle.
The G-spot Pleaser
One of the attachments is the Lovehoney G-spot Pleaser it comes in the couples kit or separately. You can buy the attachments separately, both cost around $30each when not on sale. The G-spot Pleaser is made of silicone and the length of the insertable part is about 10 cm long. You pop the cup like part of it over the tip of the wand until it fits nice and snugly, on tight. Then you can use it as a normal vibrator only with the added size of the wand you need to take into account. The way they recommend doing it is to line the wand up with your body and use lubricant to slide it inside turning the handle onto more of an angle. If you follow what feels right you should be fine, to get more pressure on the G-spot you will probably want the wand on more of an angle.
While the G-spot attachment is labeled for internal use and g-spot stimulation I found it great for more direct clitoral stimulation. The head alone for me covers too much of a wide area, the G-spot Pleaser allows me to get the powerful vibrations of the wand where I want it both externally and internally. It is curved for stimulating the g-spot which some people will really appreciate. I find using it on the clit first makes it more enjoyable to use on the G-spot. It was fun moving it around and finding the spots that felt best and figuring out the right way to use it on my body.
As with all toys if you buy this one I suggest spending some time to get acquainted with it, try different positions, pressure and angles, test out the settings and give it a try before writing it off
Hummer Masturbation Wand Attachment
The Hummer Male Masturbation Sleeve can be purchased separately. It’s an masturbation sleeve attachment for penises made from the jelly like material TPE. It is important to keep it clean and dry before use for a longer life and to get the most out of it. There is a textured inner with ribbed lines on one end which is tighter and raised dots on the other end to give a different feeling when used each way. As with the G-spot attachments and any other wand add ons you put the open “cup” over the head of the wand and turn on to use. For the masturbation sleeve it’s best to have it in place before turning the wand on, in other words put the sleeve over the penis first. Use lots of lube and slide it over a hard penis for use, it stretches to help get it on.
My boyfriend had never used a sex toy like this one before, or any that were made to stimulate on the penis. He seemed to be a little freaked out at first but after relaxing a bit and feeling the sensations he was able to enjoy it more, especially after the first time using it. He tried both ways and agreed the lined, tighter end felt best when put on first. He tried it a few ways, with my help. First we tried using it as a masturbation sleeve and moving it up and down, with and without a hand around it. Another way he tried it was to leave it in place just over the start of the head with the majority of the sleeve covering the shaft, holding the wand with the vibration turned on. He tried experimenting with different modes.
The Hummer got the desired effect with him ejaculating after a short time, after the initial first use, so I can tell you that it works. You can see the sleeve moving when the wand is turned on, it vibrates and also moves side to side slightly so I imagine it would feel quite good even if it is a bit unusual for the first time user. I think it’s good to be able to have a toy you can share and that instead of only me having a toy my partner also has one now that he can use or we can use together, not at the same time though that would require some type of acrobatics.
The storage case
I ended up with the Lovehoney Magic Wand Storage Case but I think the kit normally comes with a sturdy, hard case. The cases can be locked for safer more private storage, which I thought was a bonus. Both the soft and hard cases are good for storage. They’re long enough to fit the wand and have some pockets for keeping the attachments in. Allowing you to store them safely, cleanly and away from prying eyes. Like the other add ons, you can buy the storage case separately.
Together the Deluxe Wand Couples Kit kit makes a great couples toy pack and will provide hours of pleasure and fun for everyone. I would recommend buying the wand in the kit to allow for the extra uses the attachments help with, especially since I find direct clitoral stimulation preferable. Anyone who enjoys vibrators would find trying a wand worthwhile I think, they aren’t for everyone but the add ons can help them suit various needs. There is different attachments available to try as well as the two in the couples kit. By including a masturbation sleeve it allows the wand to be used by almost anyone.
I have heard wands are a good option for people with certain disabilities, for example injuries that affect sensation. For those with disabilities affecting their ability to reach the lower body easily it could also be an option due to the long handle. I have to say that I’m not a Doctor nor an expert in that field, so I’d advise doing a bit of research and speaking to a sex positive medical practitioner for advice and to see if it might be the right choice for you.
Overall I think wands are good for a wide range of people. Personally I like more direct clit stimulation so the attachments are great and I look forward to trying some others in future. If you decide to give it a try please buy through my link and use the code RISQUE10 for a 10% discount at
Material: Silicone and ABS plastic (hummer: TPE, pleaser: Silicone)
Power: mains, 2.4mtr cord
Settings: 20 including 10 levels and 10 different modes
Stimulation: Wand: external; G-spot Pleaser: internal-G-spot and external; Hummer: external-penis
Intensity: Strong to very strong
Usage time: up to 1.5 hours recommended use
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