Sounds Like Mutual Masturbation

Listening ear

Masturbation Monday

I’ve been meaning to contribute to Masturbation Monday for quite some time. I’m glad to finally be able to join in and share a personal story about something that recently happened. So here it is, enjoy.

Listening ear

Sound like Mutual Masturbation

I experienced something out of the ordinary the other day. Afterwards I lay there laughing in pleasure and disbelief, my body still tingling. The happiness and satisfaction I felt in those moments, it was truly orgasmic – a moment of pure pleasure.

Many times I’ve listened to my lover’s voice and felt aroused by the sound of it and sometimes turned on by what was being said and hearing his voice moan in pleasure could make me do the same just from hearing it. If I get lucky and can feel the vibration of his voice, I’m in heaven. I didn’t realize the power it could have over me until now.

Usually I don’t cum, not easily anyway. It’s hard to explain so he gets left feeling that his amazing skills are unable to affect me. He gets me so close to orgasm I can’t believe my mind would be so cruel to stop me so far into it. It’s shitty and makes me feel double crap when I see he feels like he somehow failed. So moments like this one are particularly valuable.

So back to my story. This day it was hot, it’s Summer here and he was home from work. We had the fan pointed towards the bed and the blind shut to keep out the hot sun. To set the scene for you more I will explain what was happening.

It was a quiet day and all I could hear was the clicking and whooshing of the fan, the buzzing of my vibrator and the rattling coming from our fridge as it broke down there in the kitchen. Next to me, my boyfriend slept and his breathing felt comforting the occasional snore telling me he was still asleep.

He and I were spending time relaxing with each other before we’d had sex. After the sex we were both lying on the bed, him asleep and satisfied, myself not so much. As usual I hadn’t cum yet, so I was playing with one of my toys just lying there relaxed moving the vibrator around my pussy feeling in an absent minded manner. That is until he woke up. He saw me playing and immediately snapped. He began watching me as he started to play with himself.

Looking on as he played with himself was more enjoyable for me than I expected, he looked hot. Watching his pull up and down firmly holding his hard cock turned me on. The thought of it now turns me on he looks so great when he has his penis in his hand gripping it tightly with confidence and ownership, it looks so erotic and natural. It’s such a masculine vision, he seems so confident and hot in a position that is completely natural for him.

I wish I was watching him wank himself right now as I write about it and remember watching him satisfy himself while fantasizing. He is a sexy man that’s for sure. He keeps wanking at this point he seems to not want to do anything that could interfere with my mission, to make myself cum.

Then he does something new. He closes his eyes and starts to fantasize out loud, saying what he was thinking about. His fantasy included descriptions of what I was doing with or to him and orders to do other things like sucking his cock or “taking it all, like a good girl.” He has a great imagination and the scenarios he comes up with are always horny and much more hot than I can think up alone. At one point there was another male joining in with us.

This day his dirty talk gets me going, some of it’s downright filthy talk and I loved it! if anyone else had ever said the things he says sometimes I’d likely slap them.

But he gets me off in what sometimes seem like the strangest ways. Telling me what a dirty girl I was in his mind and watching him wank off in his imagination got me going increasingly by the moment. Our sexual energy rose so together. I didn’t expect myself to cum, as I usually don’t but as he kept going talking dirtier and dirtier, doing things in his mind I let myself join in on the ride of the fantasy with him.

Imagining myself doing all kinds of naughty things for him so he would praise me for being a good girl for sucking his cock right and taking it all. It sounded like he was enjoying himself and that I was pleasing him right.

He was saying things like, “Yeah that’s right, take it like a good girl,”

“you’re a naughty little girl aren’t you?”

“You love it don’t you?” and

“suck daddy’s cock, put it all in.” or “ooh yeah that’s the spot”

He lay there with his eyes shut imagining us doing all kinds of things, pulling himself off.

After watching him and listening intently for some time I let my head fall back on the pillow and just let myself go, listening to him and playing with myself at the same time. Our rhythms were both increasing as his rose, getting ready to climax. When he cums he doesn’t do it quietly, letting it all out and I love how I can hear his release every time especially when it’s a big one.

His fantasies were good enough that they did the trick for him. He let himself go, releasing the pent up tension letting out the first moan got me. By the time he finished moaning loudly and had cum all on his stomach something happened that I’m still surprised by.

The sound of his voice triggered me and I came too, at the exact time as he did. It felt unbelievable, I couldn’t control myself. I came for about a minute, maybe more. I hope next time I hear him enjoying himself like that I’m able to cum again, it was such an awesome experience. It was so unexpected I started giggling, feeling completely happy and relaxed but also surprised that his talking and the sound of him getting off is one of the things that’s actually made me cum.

That has to be the best mutual masturbation session ever.


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iWand Personal Massager Review

Purple iWand Massager with power cord.
Purple iWand Massager with power cord.
iWand with Power Cord

iWand Enhanced Rechargeable Massager Review

I was really excited to get a wand, finally even though the iWand is more like a generic wand than a well known brand. I’ve wanted one for awhile after hearing all the hype about how great they are. When I first tried out my new iWand, I was a bit deflated. Having expected to get instant mind blowing orgasm when I didn’t the first time it was a let down. After giving it a real go, playing with it several more times, I was willing to give it another chance thinking maybe it wasn’t all bad.

You can see my review of a smaller personal massager here


The iWand is a big toy, the biggest I’ve used so far which felt a bit odd to start with then it became a bit of a novelty. Once I really got used to it I found the size to be a plus, enabling the vibration to stimulate a wider area. With lube the rounded head made of soft silicone slides around to wherever you want to feel it.


The iWand has 10 speeds or more accurately modes with different pulsations and two levels of constant vibration.

It’s made of 100% silicone and phthalate free which is a plus because it’s made from body safe materials, unfortunately not all toys are. Another feature I like about it is that it’s waterproof which is becoming pretty standard in rechargeable sex toys. Not only can you have fun in the shower or bath but it makes for easier cleaning.

Price and warranty

It also comes with a 1 year warranty which is good for any electrical product, especially sex toys which can set you back a bit financially. The iWand isn’t overly expensive mine was bought on clearance so it was cheap. I just had a look and they’re selling for anywhere between $25 and $80aud, a bargain really.Massage I found it worked well for massaging my lower back and other areas which hold tension. It was fun to play with, with my partner which we did a couple of times. The size is a real novelty factor which took a bit of getting used to.

This morning I had a back ache and used it before I had to go out, it got rid of the pain in no time.

Using the iWand

I wouldn’t say it’s my favorite toy but I’m glad I tried it out. After getting used to the size and how it works and feels, I was able to reach orgasm which I can’t always and don’t with all toys, so that’s a major positive. It does actually do what I purchased it to for.

I’m glad I have had an introduction into the world of wand vibrators and look forward to getting my hands on a quality brand wand one day so I can experience a more intense vibration and have more control over how strong the vibration is as most have more than two levels of strength. I love that its pink, it also comes in purple, both my favorite colors.

The price wasn’t too bad but I kind of wish I had saved up for a more well known brand of wand and probably a corded one for power. The cordless design gives you some freedom and flexibility but the power output isn’t the same when it’s not plugged into mains power.


It charges quite quickly, with 3 hours of charging giving you 3 hours of battehysicalry usage. I wish it could be used while it’s plugged in to mains power but it doesn’t allow for that so when it’s charging you just have to wait. My first impression of it is that it’s more of a novelty toy than a real wand vibrator. I guess I should have known it wouldn’t have the grunt of a mains power, plug in type wand.

Being rechargeable is a bonus most of the time but sometimes it doesn’t provide the power you need for the job, with a wand you really want that kind of intensity.

My overall final impression

The iWand makes for a novelty toy or good beginners wand so you can give one a try on a low budget.mI suggest thinking about saving the money and putting it towards a newer wand manufactured by a reputable well known company, many will come with a warranty so it’s worth some consideration.

The oomph of the vibration might be enough for some people or like for me it was enough sometimes. I would’ve liked to have more control over the level of vibration. It did do the job in the end so I can’t complain entirely. It’s not a terrible toy, but as I said earlier more of a novelty item.

For now, I am still awaiting the day I reward myself with a wand that is reputable and runs on mains power. Until then I’ll play with my iWand when the feeling takes me.

(Update: I got a Lovehoney Wand so I’ll be doing a review on that soon!)

Review: After Dark Intimate Wipes

In exchange for an honest review I was given some After Dark intimate wipes to try out. Here is my review.

After Dark I believe are an Australian business, although I should double check that. The staff are friendly and helpful, you can contact via their website or catch up with them at exhibitions such as Sexpo, as I was meant to last year.

As the name suggests After Dark Intimate Wipes are wipes for those times when you need a quick freshen up down there. If for whatever reason can’t access a shower they can be a godsend, especially during that time of the month or an unplanned or unexpected sexual encounter.

After a quick wipe over you’ll be feeling and smelling much better. There’s nothing worse than worrying if everything is in tip top shape downstairs when things start to heat up. I can recall a few times I wish I had some intimate wipes on hand to make sure I was more prepared when the opportunity presented itself.

By putting them to the test in Summer we can see how effective they are. Testing them in the perfect conditions one may say. 

I’ve tested out After Dark Intimate Wipes using them when needed over about a month.

Let’s check out some of their claims first. 

After Dark Intimate Wipes are

  • For all genders, not just women.
  • Made from 100% bamboo fibre giving the wipes a soft feel
  • Hypo-allergenic
  • Alcohol free
  • PH balanced (important for use down there!)
  • Enriched with the moisturizing effects of Vitamin E
  • Contain soothing Aloe Vera
  • Antibacterial
  • Odor removing
  • Not tested on animals


My Thoughts

The wipes are moist but not overly dripping wet, which is good in my opinion they help clean and don’t create a mess. The scent is mild, not at all overpowering, somehow the wipes go to work on your body odor, neutralizing them so you feel and smell fresh as a daisy. Yeah, Daisey’s must be pretty fresh.

After Dark Intimate Wipes are suitable for sensitive skin, like with anything you put on your skin if irritation occurs cease use immediately, it’s unlikely you will experience any irritation being hypoallergenic with added soothing ingredients like Aloe Vera and Vitamin E.

Packs are available with individually wrapped wipes so you can keep some in your bag or pocket even and some at home. They would be perfect for people working maybe even sex workers in a rush to get home or people out on the scene or dating. 

It’s always best to be prepared, things always seem to happen when you least expect them to. Especially those moments when chemistry strikes.

After Dark wipes can be used for cleaning sex toys and accessories. They’re perfect for getting off any dust or lint particles on those toys that just seem to attract everything. You can even use them for the quick midday change of a menstrual cup at work to save from having to leave the cubicle. Check out my review of fun cups for more on menstrual cups.

You can use them for just about anything you might use wipes for even removing your makeup if you happen to have an unplanned overnight stay with your new friend. Or you might just like to freshen up on a hot day so you feel better in yourself. They don’t have to be used only for sexual purposes although sex is a great reason to use them and you won’t really want to waste them on anything else. 

I wondered if the wipes would leave a strong taste if used before oral sex but they worked wonderfully, especially since its the middle of Summer here. I’ve used them a few times and asked my partner if he noticed any smells or tastes and he said I seemed fine and clean. No yucky perfumes or body odor to ruin the moment. And what good moments they were too, thanks for your contribution After Dark.

They felt great too, the wipes are soft which is nice for using it on your genitals and they’re big enough to get a good clean from one wipe, you wouldn’t really need more than a few. They were more effective than I thought they’d be, relying on the wipes actually cleaning you and not just covering up smells with fake perfumes.

Unlike other wipes they didn’t leave any residue on my skin or leave me feeling sticky and gross. After Dark Intimate Wipes felt refreshing and cleansing with a soft moisturizing effect, leaving my skin soft and silky smooth.

The packaging is quite sexy too which is a plus, it doesn’t look like baby wipes which aren’t really compatible with getting in the mood.

I’ll gladly use After Dark Intimate Wipes in future and recommend them to others especially those on the go or who may need to spend hours away from home at work or wherever. They’re so convenient and easy to use for a quick spruce up. It’s amazing the difference a bit of a wipe can do for the way you feel.  It’s much easier to get into it when you feel clean so I think these are a good idea, especially the individually packed wipes.

They felt so great I’d be happy to use them all the time. They’re especially great for the hotter months of Summer when things can get a bit sweaty just going about your day. I was glad to get several chances to try them out with my partner, the wipes didn’t let me down.

I felt clean every time I used them and my partner was happy with them which is a good sign, if they didn’t work he would’ve noticed straight away. Even he was impressed and I was glad to get more oral than normal so they were definitely beneficial for me.

I’d love to try the new oil in After Dark range, maybe I’ll get to review it one day.  

My Top 5 or so Favorite Sex Blogs of 2017

Top Bloggers of 2017

Apologies for bringing you my best of 2017 when we are already into 2018. I figured better late than never and what better time to start catching up on unfinished work than now?  I’m going to try and create a blogging schedule I can stick to this year and some of these superstar bloggers have got it down-pat, whatever their method is it’s working for them, their blogs are fantastic, informative and just really well done.

Hopefully you will check out a few from my list they are all brilliant in their own ways.

I would have made a list of 100 but I thought I better limit myself. So here’s to my midweek version of SoSS, my round-up of my fave sex blogs from 2017. I’m so glad I found each and every one of them.

  1. A great site which I really love is Candy Snatch Reviews by a Sex Positive writer who I find to be quite inspirational. Not only is she a fantastic writer she is beautiful, inside and out, smart and talented. She has a natural style which shines through on her site. I was recently convinced to buy some lingerie from Lovehoney because she looked so freaken hot in her review pics. With many accomplishments under her belt in the sex blogging and writing field including being part of the Pleasure Panel you can read her reviews, articles, erotica and more in her blog. 
  2.  Dangerous Lilly’s  blog is informative and invaluable for anyone interested in sex toys particularly sex bloggers. I wish I had paid more attention to her when I first stumbled across her site. I’ve spent a lot of time recently over there looking at her articles on the ingredients found in our sex toys and lubes, there is some really well written and important info over there. She also has advice for new sex bloggers which I can’t get enough of at the moment, so she’s on my top 5 list right now.  I love her snarky attitude and that she has a tonne of knowledge tucked away on her site.
  3. Another blog I have revisited over and over again the last few weeks mainly for the Sex Blogger SEO articles, which are really fantastic. Ace in the hole is a great sex blogger all round, I can actually really relate to some of her writing about being an asexual sex blogger, I don’t identify as being asexual but sometimes feel like I could be close. Her honest and well written articles and reviews are great and I’m glad I found them in time to make it into my list!
  4. Isabelle Lauren has an awesome blog where she posts some great sex toy reviews and writes erotic fiction among other things. I really like her site and have gotten to know her a bit better over Twitter after winning a competition on her site.  I am looking forward to receiving my prize so I can write a review on it. If you want to check her out her twitter handle is @romanticIsa and her official site can be found at  Isabelle Lauren .
  5. (and 6) Cara Sutra and Joellen at The Redhead Bedhead are Sex Blogging superstars and I wanted to include them here for sharing such a wealth of information and  being entertaining and fantastic bloggers when they’re not sharing all their secrets to success. I am always in awe of the brilliance of some people out there when it comes to blogging. Are they just natural talents or did they too learn like I’m trying too?
Top Bloggers of 2017
Top Sex Bloggers pic by / Pixabay

Special Mention

Three of my all time favorite sex bloggers spend a lot of time encouraging other newbies and I love their work.

  • Molly who works tirelessly to bring us the latest sex blogging glory including Sinful Sundays and so much more  at Molly’s Daily Kiss
  • Rebelle  who hosts Wicked Wednesday and runs her own awesome blog Rebelsnotes 
  • and Kayla who hosts Masturbation Mondays from

This post was actually meant to be for last weeks Wicked Wednesday but I think I’ve cut it a bit fine and missed the deadline, you can find other bloggers best of lists at Wicked Wednesday 

I recently wrote about other bloggers who I admire here for my 1st SoSS 

I hope I haven’t been too repetitive, if I have it means I love your work twice as much! So there is my top sex blogs of 2017 from me I hope you can find something you like in this great list of amazing bloggers!